From Mary Anne Sillifant to her husband’s ward Thomas Waters Sr. (November 30, 1804)

[Written sometime between November 30, 1804-May 2, 1805.]

Mr. Waters,

I have sent the things as you desired, the list of which you will find enclosed. The number is not so large as you mentioned as Mr. Sillifant inquired of those who are well acquainted with fitting out young men & I sent the things accordingly. I have not sent any night shirts as I thought the three day which you have would answer that purpose extremely well. I have therefore left three shirts without frills, as the frills on your day shirts are as good as new & I wish you to have them taken off of from the 3 shirts you are going to make night shirts & sewn on the 3 calico shirts without frills. You will find 9 night caps the 3 new ones you already have makes the dozen.

The pocket handkerchiefs I hope you will like. They are not so expensive as silk – 4d a piece – & no one can know them from silk.

I have managed as well as I can respecting your things & if you want any other necessaries that you mind, I can procure on better terms then yourself. If you will let me know I will most readily do it for you. Your boxes are here & the things that we thought you would want I have sent; the remainder shall be taken care of. I hope you will be careful in your expenditure as with the strictest economy you will find it very expensive & hundreds of young men who enter the Service have not more than fifty pounds in the world to expend. Mr. Sewell cost his father £35. He has been very civil in mentioning you to some of the officers of Marines.

Miss Totness is at Holsworthy. I suppose I shall see her here next week.

I shall be very happy when I hear you have sailed & most heartily & sincerely do I wish you may enjoy your health & have the success you wish. 

I remain your Sincere Friend

M.A. Sillifant

I have sent your bills which you paid in Exeter, as it is necessary they should be kept. Play ards [cards] as little as you can help. Whist is very expensive. It is so much so I never meet with any in this neighbourhood who play so high.